Good and Bad....

I had a very interesting noteworthy experience today....came to know one of my friends has quit drinking, seriously. I had heard many of my frns say this earlier but that ws just ephemeral. But this one was very committed, n I had to ask him "wsup dude, wat hapened..?? Any girl came in ur life..??" Why was I asking him the reason when he was doing a good job or sumthing that should be positive...?

Aftrwards I realised this notion - For all good things to happen, we always figure out the reason behind it. Like when I askd him abt his positive decision, we all do. But for bad things, we never try to find out its reason. Like I never remember myself or any1 ask this to his friends- "Dude, y r u smoking, or drinking, or y r u cheating, y r u telling a lie..." or anything like that.

Every good move has a reason behind it, n every bad move doesn't, except for the simple reason or fact that it leads to destruction (which can b said to b undrstood by us sumwhr in our conscience). Destruction of character, or destruction of morals, or destruction of health or the destruction of soul...

Also, with my own little experience of 'good' and 'bad', I realise that evry gud move needs efforts, n a bad move doesn't. Why do we always tend towards bad things more easily then gud ones.....?? Well, I guess, the simplest answer is that - falling freely is easier than climbing up !! n to make a complex point, I guess we , humans, are always attracted to short term, small pleasures or adventures that a bad move myt provide. We always know, in our animus, that what is 'right' n wat is 'wrong'...n we expect ppl to behave the 'right' way....but we, ourselves, want to try out the wrong way too...atleast for a while.
Now, for such behaviour, I'm not able to deduce the reason...n I call it 'natural human tendency'...perhaps, it looks like more of an escapists' justification, rather than a reasonable assertion...what do ya say...??